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Many sexual problems can be helped with hypnotherapy and "Pure Hypnoanalysis" but I must insist that you consult a medical doctor in all instances to rule out any organic problems prior to consulting me for therapy. Hypnotherapy cannot assist with countering the side effects of certain medications or with permanent physical impairment.

If there are sexual problems in your life they are accompanied by stress and if there is stress in your life then it is quite often accompanied by sexual problems.

If you just take a moment to ponder the above statement, you will come to understand any sexual problems you may have just a little bit more than before.

Both men and women can have problems with their sexual function throughout their lives. This may affect libido (desire) or the physical functions of arousal or orgasm.

The sexual problems which may be helped using hypnotherapy, Pure Hypnoanalysis and C.L.B. are many and varied. I will go on to list a few, but if I have not mentioned your particular issue then please call for a free initial consultation to talk over your concerns.

PREMATURE EJACULATION

This is a problem experienced by males and is quite often linked to "Anxiety" or "Social Phobia" Ejaculation or (coming) occurs very quickly upon sexual arousal or penetration. This then leads to the loss of the erection and dissatisfaction for both partners.

Men suffering from this condition can begin to feel inadequate within the whole of their relationship and may even try to avoid sexual contact with their partner.

At Selby Hypnotherapy my approach regarding premature ejaculation varies depending upon the client. If this has been a lifelong problem for you then it is usually best addressed using Pure Hypnoanalysis. However sometimes this problem has only started recently and could just be as a result of badly managed thinking i.e. "I hope that does not happen again" and then it does. If this is the case then I can easily help you with a mixture of suggestion therapy and Changing Limiting Beliefs work.

VAGINISMUS

Vaginismus is a result of the pelvic floor muscles tightening in the vagina to such an extent that penetration is very painful or totally impossible.

Women suffering from this condition may find sexual intercourse so painful that they do not want any sexual relations with their partner. In some cases women find it preferable not to enter into a relationship so that they can avoid the pain and discomfort of sex.

So long as a doctor has ruled out any physical reason for the pain or spasm in the vagina. At Selby Hypnotherapy we have found the best treatment for vaginismus to be Pure Hypnoanalysis. It can be used to find out the cause of the deep seated anxiety, which in turn leads to total relief from the pain and discomfort experienced.

ERECTILE PROBLEMS & PERFORMANCE ANXIETY

The inability to maintain an erection is very distressing for men. The mere thought of not being able to get an erection or losing and erection during sexual activity can lead to a condition called performance anxiety.

This is where you become so concerned with your ability to become erect, last a long time and in turn satisfy your partner that the anxiety stops you from achieving and erection or to suffer from premature ejaculation. Again I would treat this condition using Pure Hypnoanalysis if it had been an ongoing issue throughout your life. However, here at Selby Hypnotherapy we find in many cases of erectile problems and performance anxiety are caused by badly managed thinking or using your imagination in the wrong way. This can very easily helped using a mixture of Changing Limiting Beliefs and Suggestion Therapy.

FRIGIDITY OR NO INTEREST IN SEX

There are many emotional reasons for this and they can be helped using hypnotherapy and "Pure Hypnoanalysis"

ANORGASMIA

This is failure to reach and orgasm and can be experienced by both men and women. There are two types of anorgasmia.

PRIMARY ANORGASMIA

This is where a person (usually a woman) has never reached an orgasm. The treatment for this at Selby Hypnotherapy is usually Pure Hypnoanalysis.

SECONDARY ANORGASMIA

This is where a person, either male or female has experienced orgasms at other times in their life but is no longer able to achieve orgasm. We would need to have a chat during an initial consultation to work out what the best course of treatment would be. But with Secondary Anorgasmia it may be successfully treated using either Pure Hypnoanalysis or Changing Limiting Beliefs.

FANTASIES

Every person has sexual fantasies. However, sometimes people can have fantasies which they do not feel comfortable with. Fantasies involving violent sex, rape, or with inapropriate people, objects or animals.

If this is the case then I would suggest a course of "Pure Hypnoanalysis" so that you can see where these feelings first started and deal with them in the knowledge that you are working with someone who takes your safety, security, anonymity and confidentiality very seriously.

FETISHES

Some fetishes are accepted by both persons in a relationship. Fetishes such as, leather, latex or foot fetishes are widely known about and in many cases are accepted and considered a bit of a giggle.

However, the list of fetishes is long, different things turn on different people. Sometimes your partner will accept them and indulge you. But you may need help if your partner or society views your particular fetish as unacceptable. Or if your fetish consumes your thoughts so much that you are unable to feel sexually satisfied unless you are indulged.

If your fetish is starting to affect your life then here at Selby Hypnotherapy we find that a course of "Pure Hypnoanalysis" is the best treatment for an over reliance on a fetish. It will provide answers to why you require the particular stimulation and help you to come to terms with your own sexual feelings.

Over the years I have treated patients with lots of different sexual problems. Ranging from the issues listed above, to sexual addiction, reckless or dangerous sexual behaviour. These include, sadism, masochism, sex with strangers, a desire for unprotected sex with prostitutes and many, many more.

If you are finding that a sexual issue is having an undesireable or controlling effect on your life then call Selby Hypnotherapy for a free initial consultation. Your problems will be discussed in the strictest confidence

Selby Hypnotherapy provides professional hypnosis & hypnotherapy services for Selby, Howden, Goole, Hull, Beverley, Escrick, Cawood, York, Brayton, Pontefract, Castleford and surrounding areas

I will show you how basic psychological principles have a massive impact on the freaquency, size and length of time you maintain an erection.